What works for a cute 23 year old might cause a more grounded 29 year old who’s looking for The One to roll her eyes and move on.
So if you don’t create something that immediately snags her attention and compels her to respond, she won’t.
Even if she does reply to your “eh” message at first, she’s likely to stop responding before you get her number.
And on Tinder, you’re expected to write her a clever message that makes you stand out from all the other guys.
Meanwhile, she probably hasn’t written a single interesting thing in her bio that you can use to break the ice!
So if you share an interest that she’s displayed in her profile text or one of her photos, take advantage of it by using it as your opener.