While you may meet again in years to come, you’re only going to resent each other if you prevent the other from doing what they want.
You’d rather read the book, he’d rather watch the film – and you don’t fancy doing either together.
You’re happy to bitch about them with your parents – you’re not bothered whether they like them or not. And neither of you seem to mind that much – it’s a way to get out of being together.
If you do have sex, it’s to tell yourself that there’s something still there between you, despite sex feeling like an obligation. You can imagine yourself in 10 years time, but more often than not your partner doesn’t fit into that picture.
If your partner’s words and actions scream, “ME-ME-ME,” you should find someone who appreciates Let’s just face it, shall we?