But on the flipside, the unfulfilled hope of a dating relationship turning into a breakup rather than a marriage can make a heart sick. In Christian Dating You Need Boundaries for Your Words and Promises This list of important dating boundaries for Christians could go on and on.
(Read: Christian Dating, Breakups, and 4 Tips to Help You Get Through It With God) Any breakup is going to hurt because all dating relationships have hope in them, and when hope is deferred the heart grows sick. I just wrote about this in great detail here, “How Far Is Too Far In Christian Dating? I get these two categories from 1 Corinthians 7:1-10. The trickier part will be to define what is an act rooted in sexual desire and what is an act that is simply a sign of affection. But one more that’s just too important not to mention is boundaries for your words and promises.
Just stop.) Conversations about emotional, future-centered topics need to happen once the relationship starts getting “medium” to “very” on the serious scale.
But if you are in the “not that serious” zone and you are talking about how the two of you are going to divide up the holidays with your families once you get married 10 years from now, you are playing with fire.
One area to consider placing boundaries around is your emotions.