Looking to scripture, I saw, there are women who we admire, who take active roles particularly in the way they relate to men. She perfumes herself, dresses up and then presents herself at Boaz’s feet after he climbs into bed.
That seems a lot bolder than telling a guy that you like him!
However, for me, as the years passed, I wondered if this was true. It seemed that in every other area of life God requires my active participation.
And scripture applauds her, it does not condemn her.
There are times when God calls us to patiently wait on his timing.
But he knows many people in his generation who also advise not pairing off in dating relationships while in high school.
Even if godly people you know married early, dating early is not necessarily a good idea, he said."Whether you see dating at age 15, 16, or 17 as wise will depend partly on your view of sexual relations, partly on your view of the meaning of dating, and partly on your view of the relative maturity of teenagers," Piper noted.
I thought by waiting for this courageous pursuer the church kept talking about, I would get a guy strong enough to fix my tendency to control.