After all, Michelle will be the first to tell you that she’s a bit of a handful.
And after dominating (and losing respect) for her last guy, she craved the attention of a man who was a little more alpha.
While I was coaching Michelle through the first four months of their relationship (and intermittently in between), I cautioned her to NOT put any pressure on him about getting married and having kids.
While theoretically, she could be “wasting” her time with him, my advice was to let him fall in love with her.
Every time she wanted to criticize him for how he handled his relationship with his son, or his ex-wife, or his boss, she remembered that men don’t stay with women who treat them as incomplete projects – they bond with women who make them feel good. Here’s a snippet of her note to me: I love Michelle and I love this story.