According to some gringos whom I’ve spoken to currently dating paisa women, they don’t even turn up at all, and they have to arrange three dates for the probability of them turning up to at least one.
When we have a date, we turn up (most of the time anyway).
Saying that though, it is a refreshing change after being an independent woman to have someone make all the decisions for you (for a short while anyway).
Don’t expect your plans to fixed either as he may change them at the last-minute as he just “doesn’t feel” like doing what you had originally planned together.
I am starting to see Colombian men in a completely different light.
Perhaps it’s because I haven’t been out of the country in a while, but they are suddenly looking very appealing.
Because you’re not a paisa chica, don’t expect him to pay for your meal.