He swears he has not slept with anyone else, but who looks up craigslist ads without acting on them.
1.) he opened the phone bill and gave me the summary page only, i.e.
no phone detail red flag raised, but moved on with my day 2.) he stopped the mail when we went on an annual beach vacation, pro-activity not his strong suit.
My husband and I had much more of a parent child relationship for many years, it certainly was not a healthy relationship.
I married my husband because I thought he was safe.
And I go from feeling sorry for him, and wanting to help, to not being able to stand being anywhere near him, angry and then to feeling completely numb.