This exercise will cause both of you to anticipate your time together out.
This also means making time in your schedule for sex.
Just look at how the book begins: Throughout the book, the lover (Solomon) and his beloved (Shulamith) talk enthusiastically about romantic and sexual love. Note, for example, what Solomon says about Shulamith: "How beautiful your feet in sandals, O prince's daughter!
The curves of your hips are like jewels, the work of the hands of an artist…Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle....
The problem is that, sometime within the first year or two after the wedding ceremony, something happens in most marriages.