The more you improve yourself, the more high quality women will be interested in you. When you are with a woman, you are not in court trying to prove your case why this girl belongs with you okay. Women won’t tell you this but they actually prefer it this way. Women want a challenge since it makes you stand out unlike the rest of all the other men who have the scarcity mentality, they chase, they put her on a pedestal thus they bore her to death. Look, attraction isn’t something you decide upon—it’s an uncontrollable reaction to the right qualities. I’ve spoken with many very attractive women who are in relationships and married and most of them said at first they didn’t like their current boyfriend/husband when they first met. It may seem annoying at first, but the end result will be either you get the girl you want or you don’t and nothing more or less. Go after what you want in life and don’t let anything stop you. You must become a man who knows who he is, knows what he wants, and knows that he has the determination to get there. Maybe your mission is to just enjoy life to the fullest.
Yes, it’s what women want, but it’s not what they .
And I am not suggesting that you go completely 180 right now and turn into an arrogant jerk either. Deep down in there is the soft chewy center of a man.
Put yourself in the woman’s shoes…Imagine a woman chasing you. Every morning you get a text and you only hung out twice.
She gets upset when you chill with your friends and you are not even dating. Nothing scares a woman off faster than a guy who becomes emotionally involved way too quickly.
It’s not a bad thing to be soft and vulnerable inside, but just be aware that women are not necessarily ATTRACTED to the soft, limp man until she’s first seen the HARD side of him.