Terri Orbuch, professor at Oakland University, research professor at the University of Michigan Institute for Social Research and a family therapist.
“Tell them they are your first priority and you’ll always be there for them, no matter who you’re dating.” If kids are resistant or negative, don’t get defensive. “I’ve done a pretty careful job of limiting (my son’s) exposure to anybody that I wasn’t 100 percent sure could be marriage (material),” says Sean Singer, a divorced dad in Plymouth.
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When Laura and Jeff Solomon were dating, they concocted chance meetings as a way to familiarize their kids.
“We didn’t (say), ‘Hi, this is my boyfriend and his kids,'” Solomon says.
Always use the concept of friends.” First, second, even third meetings of a “significant other” and your respective kids should occur in neutral, fun locations – Chuck E.
Cheese, parks, putt-putt or movies – places devoid of pressure.
“We went to the park and, oh, we happened to run into Jeff, Jake and Jordan.