I need, nay, the intellectual engagement, and legions of smart, educated men feel similarly.
So it pains me to no end to see my smart, educated, lovely female friends remain single, alone and lonely in spite of their best efforts. Surely there is something wrong with the world if they remain single for so long.
, would have accused me of nursing a scarcity mindset—a notion that there’s only so much love, money, and recognition to go around, so any person’s success means there will be less left over for me.
Hill contrasted that view with an abundance mindset, which contends that there’s more than enough for everyone to have everything they want.
A smart woman wants to date a smart man, since men less intelligent than her frankly bore her to tears.