This in itself separates those who are genuinely interested (daters), from those who aren’t (users). I had already made plans with friends.” Which woman truly has your best interest in mind?For example: Woman A – “I’m really sorry, I can’t see the show on Saturday. Is there any way we can have coffee or lunch on Sunday? Woman A delivers the bad news directly and offers to amend the situation.
She was attractive, intelligent, and the conversation flowed naturally.
To top it all off, you got her number—a personal success in any man’s book.
While some may disagree with this notion, citing previous dates where maybes turned into “yes,” let me ask you this one question: What have you encountered more with a “maybe”? Ask any woman— if they really want to date you, then they will the find time.
At the very least, they will offer up an alternative solution.
" These arguments sound convincing, but the reality is not so pleasant.