A secure man wouldn’t be offended or threatened if his woman speaks to other guys *unless she’s had a sexual history with that guy*.
But if your man is insecure, chances are, he’ll tell you how lonely and awkward he felt when you were so busy talking and having fun with another guy. They look for ways to pierce your heart and get things done their way.
[Read: How to deal with insecurity in a relationship] That’s the strange power of insecurity and insecure men in a relationship.
[Read: Why does love hurt so much when it goes bad? Insecurity is a deep rooted issue that’s as unique as the guy.
But almost always insecurity is a trait that’s associated with men who have low self esteem.
[Read: Signs to tell if he really is the right man for you] The problems of dating insecure men Insecure men are terribly jealous. In fact, they’ll make you feel like you’re being the bad one in the relationship.
They’ll behave like they’re sacrificing so much for your happiness, and load you up with guilt.
And before you know it, your sweet and insecure man will learn to control your life by playing the part of the victim.