They might have to wait until your next visit to experience it hands on, but tease them by using a dildo on yourself during Skype sex (feel free to keep your face out of it if you want). Have them use a vibrator on their clit and watch their orgasmic expression when the toy brings them to climax. Dare your partner to wear a butt plug throughout your entire Skype chat, or keep one in all day and message back and forth to see how they're enjoying it.
Next level: New high-tech sex toys, such as the We-Vibe Sync, come with apps that let you play together even when you and your partner are apart, Singh says.
Lucky for us, the year is 2017, and the communication options for long-distance couples have come a long way from hand-written love letters (although that's still not a bad idea).
Yes, communicating during sex is important, but putting as much intention into the way and amount you communicate outside of sex helps maintain your general intimacy — so that when you finally get down to it, you and your S. Build up sexual tension by dropping dirty messages spontaneously.
A racy photo while you're getting ready for work or a detailed text about that sexy dream you had last night can be perfect ways to arouse your partner in between Skype sessions.
Rather than open another Skype sex session lying in bed, set up your computer so your partner can watch you while you clean your apartment in a sexy outfit. You can keep it PG-13 and use the romantic scene to catch up about how much you miss one another, or you can make it X-rated and add a waterproof sex toy to your Skype session so your partner can watch you get off in the tub.
Or, if you're out at a party and your partner is missing you, slip into a private room (like a bathroom) for a moment to open Skype and let them know that you haven't forgotten them. Add to the build up of Skype sex by giving a strip tease, removing one item of clothing at a time as your partner watches and masturbates.
Using the Skype messaging app, drop a photo of your panties lying on the ground and leave the rest up to your partner's imagination — and then resume the dirty talk.