I also know I may be hitting some nerves out there and some western men may be confused if their Filipina sweet heart is sincere or not.
Many Filipinas will play the guilt trip with you and tell you sad stories how their house has been flooded or how it is their exams next week for them to graduate but they can no longer afford the fee.
I felt so guilty & bad but inside I also wasn’t sure if she was trying to scam me or not. Then she asked me if only I can just send a few thousand peso?
I told her that as we just started to talk and not really in a relationship as yet and I cannot help everyone who ask.
The family always seemed to be expecting more and more from her and at times they have no idea of how hard we need to work and balance the income and bills.