I’ve learned what works, what doesn’t, how to create healthy boundaries, how not to get lost in a relationship, and am very aware of what I want in life.
And though I love this man, and I enjoy his company more than anyone’s, I sometimes doubt if he’s had enough experience to know that I’m the right one for him.
You don’t need to make like Stifler’s mom and prey on young 18-year-old boys. What you need to do is embrace the incredible sexual power you possess—and stop making excuses for why you can’t. If there’s one complaint I hear from younger men—and the reason they’re interested in older women, is that they’re a little tired of the same old scene and games.
They’re very into the idea of spending time with a woman who brings a little more to the table—a whole world of experience and interests outside of his own. He’s smarter than you think and would welcome a grown-up conversation, not to mention a mature relationship.
To say men JUST want sex, especially young men, isn’t a fair assessment.
They’ve been having sex for years, and it’s not like they can’t get it if they want it.
When I was 36, I had a brief, wonderful affair with a lovely 24-year-old entrepreneur I met on an airplane.