Mendez explains that “the basis around clinginess is the fear of not being loved and not being enough.” You might feel that being clingy will forge a stronger connection between you and your guy, but it could actually have the opposite effect.Mendez advises you “be patient and wait for him to meet you halfway.” Building attachment takes time—don’t try to force it!
Playing the cat-and-mouse dating game can be exhausting.
Whether you’ve just met a guy you like, you’ve been casually dating someone new or you can’t get over your ex, figuring out how to act is anything but easy.
“Don’t eliminate the thrill of the chase,” Smith advises.
There are plenty of ways to show a guy you’re interested without suffocating him in the process.
Make sure he has space to approach you: for example, you could stand by your girlfriend’s side rather than be surrounded by half a dozen of your besties. You overanalyze his social media activity Facebook stalking someone you like is normal, unless you’re doing it far too often.