Want to know the number one trick to meeting men online and getting dates? I was online for several years before I figured it out and met my husband on I will never forget how it felt to send an endless number of emails, only for them to end up in the pit of Internet rejection hell.Oh well, I shouldn’t complain because for the past 4 years I have been working towards this promotion and I guess it comes with the territory.
The truth is, there is a lot of competition out there—especially if you’re a woman dating over 40. Include: I know about a lot of things, but a physicist I’m not.
Move into your 50s and 60s, and the competition can get downright fierce. I would enjoy learning more about the where’s and why’s of how matter and energy interact. But my interest is real.) Or, if you prefer, we can talk about how well you liked the last movie you saw.
In a little bit, I am going to transform the email example above into a highly effective message.
But first, let’s analyze some of the common email mistakes that are made in this email, and why it would never get results. An example of an online dating email filled with mistakes, transformed into a great email that will get results.
She’s probably not even getting the darned thing read. It piques his interest and tells him there’s more good stuff to learn. Here’s my formula for writing emails when you’re dating online. You can even get a bit provocative, but don’t overdo that or you may send an I-want-sex-and-you-can-count-on-it signal. Usually then the first characters of what you write show up in their inbox, so make your first sentence count! Show kindness and tell him how glad you are that he connected/got in touch. [compliment and men love the thought of teaching us stuff.] (Ok, I admit…I looked that up. [kinda easy question to answer and gives you info you want to know] This online dating email is a little long, but I wanted to show you some good examples.