Comment: While doing online dating, I’m running into the type of man who sends lots of engaging emails, but doesn’t want to meet in real life.After email 5 or 6 I suggest we continue the conversation over coffee or drinks, but they either dissappear, or arrange a date then cancel or don’t confirm.That’s why it’s important to get offline as soon as possible. Ladies, send the thank you text after the date and say you’d like to do it again. Coincidentally, they have all been IT professionals who don’t have a rich social life, but enjoy hearing about mine.
It shows the likelihood that a someone on responds to a message from a member of the opposite sex given their age difference.
To the left, -10 means the sender was 10 years younger, on the right, the sender was 10 years older, with zero indicating that the sender and the recipient are the same age.
Or they are horrifically social awkward and you’ll have to coddle them. It’s not your job to help them through whatever awkward phase they might be going through, nor are you potentially losing out at The One by being quicker to dismiss bad behavior.
The only thing you’re doing wrong is engaging these guys.
This is the nature of online dating and you can’t take it personally. They’re just looking for someone to pay attention to to them or are too afraid to meet someone off line and “ruin the magic.” They like the idea of seeming perfect.