As a bisexual woman, I spend a lot of time considering the positive and negative qualities of both men and women.
When we've been burned one time to many by men and we've said, maybe even jokingly, how much easier it would be to become a lesbian and never have to deal with them again. But a recent study from the Essex University psychology department said that while straight men are straight, no question, heterosexual women — whatever we ourselves might think — are always secretly attracted to their own sex, too. According to the study, all women are either gay or bisexual, but NEVER straight.
I am tired of hiding and I am tired of lying by omission.
I suffered for years because I was scared to be out.
And frankly, it's easier for us to put up with another woman's needs than a man's, largely because we understand them better.