Editor’s Note: This article originally appeared at Cellar Door, the personal blog of Gabrielle Puglia. You need to understand that the military is a brotherhood.
Read this portion from the AR: “Relationships between Soldiers of different rank are prohibited if they— (1) Compromise, or appear to compromise, the integrity of supervisory authority or the chain of command.
(2) Cause actual or perceived partiality or unfairness.
If you don't know how to reach your boyfriends commander, contact the Base Personnel officer on the base where your boyfriend is stationed.
Give the officer the name of your boyfriend and the officer will give you the contact information you will need to contact the CO.
Take a look at the top five questions on the subject answered by the Experts. Even without a regulation that keeps you from dating this person, your command obviously doesn't approve.