I've also become royally annoyed by the paucity of science-based sex information available to older adults. On the site, I answer questions for free and offer 86 articles on all aspects of sex for older adults (PDFs emailed to you, $1.99 each). Hmmm It sounds to me that you are cheating but your wife is partly blame for that. I like reading stuff like this to see if i can get a husband at the age of 40 or 50 because i'm very shy now lol.
Site visitors are also invited to share their sexual wisdom. It's not necessarily cheating because it's not uncommon for older married couples to come to some kind of open or quiet don't-ask-don't-tell agreement when it's obvious that one partner is done with sex, while realizing it's not realistic to demand permanent celibacy from their partner. But the theory is that a lot of people are not in good health by that age, and overly common things like smoking and obesity can kill functioning in men even at a relatively young age.
They don't have penis-vagina intercourse, but so what? Now, I'll agree that my wife stopped being interested in intercourse, not to mention all sex, by her age of 50.
Hands, mouths, and sex toys offer many erotically satisfying ways to make love and enjoy orgasm. I'm still sexually active and I'm determined to stay that way for the rest of my life. So all I can say is, thank god for younger women who like healthy and vital older men!
She admitted the research challenged traditional ideas about what makes a successful relationship and said it showed the assumption can longer be made that relationships are about settling down and living together.