I chalked it up to my voracious appetite, which may have been a turn-off for a Hollywood director accustomed to whippet-thin actresses who rarely eat, but I found out later that he already had a girlfriend.
It turned out that he was merely "shopping around" while she was out of town.
To me, a single mom, A man that has children that he doesn't see is a big red flag. My little guy is 18 months old and takes up all my time. But i have the same fear, that he will feel the abandonment all over again.
Sometimes I think it'd be nice to get away for an hour or two... Maybe when he's older I will not be so afraid to get back out there. But he was a bit younger than I and was not ready for that yet. I am not one to introduce my son to anyone right away..has have actually only let him meet one.
He took such lingering pauses before responding that I started to think he'd forgotten the question.