from Oklahoma a couple of months ago and, I have to say, I'm lovin' it!
Dear Ynez, Allow me to answer your second question first, because it’s a lot quicker: No. So, in essence, you’re saying something as clichéd as “I like to laugh” or “I want a man who’s honest.” It’s a pointless point, and is one that’s bound to be ignored.
) Write me back, sweet child o' mine -- that sure would be fine (that rhymed! Why no one wants you: We are afraid you will murder us in our sleep. Why no one wants you: This is the grown-up equivalent of asking your friend's friend to ask me if I like you -- but, you know, not so grown-up.
There's plenty of time later to run out of things to say. (I'll also be wearing a rather irresistible bow tie -- with a motor! I'm looking for a smart man with passion and drive, and you seem to be it! Why no one wants you: You probably sent the same message to half of OKCupid ... As we have already established (see #2), we don't need your life story. The creeper Example: I want to ****** ***** with your **** ******. Unless "casual sex" is listed, cease and desist with the sexting. The gusher Example: Oh my, you are extremely handsome, you know that? If you ever want to stare into those "starshine" eyes in person, hold the compliments until you're trying to get into said person's pants. The wordless wonder Example: You have been added to Patrick Bateman Is The Man's Favorite's List!
I wrote about this extensively in and think that if your biggest problem is the volume of the “wrong men” writing, it’s really easy to fix.