The truth is, they’re just not that special and you’re not that busy. Whether you’re making excuses for them or you, it’s time to ask yourself how you ever really expect to have a relationship that can grow? If you’re the one who loves the texting, you’re trying to have it on your terms and put out a little to get a lot. Start as you mean to go on – don’t let your relationship be managed by text because you’ll end up all on their distant and very shady terms and there is no point trying to close the door after the horse has bolted as you’ve already shown you’re OK with crumb communications.
If you’re the one that’s being managed by text, you’re getting sold on words while building a sandcastle in the sky. It actually often takes more time to write a text than it does to make a phone call. If they refuse to call, don’t try to waste your time teaching them – they haven’t just come out of the womb into 2011.
If you’ve never tried calling a late night singles chat line, you don’t know what you are missing.
Flirting on the phone with a complete stranger is fun and exciting.
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