You never know what will happen next in life, so it’s important to never take what you have for granted.
You spend the earlier parts of your relationship trying to “read” the other person; trying to make sure you’re both on the same page.
Let’s say you care about this person enough to consider spending the rest of your life with them.
Then, there are the practical questions to consider, like are you willing to move for said person, or what is said person’s health history? What do you do when the person you’re falling for is struggling with a condition that’s too complex for even your partner to understand?
Immediately after that, I’d put my workout clothes on and I go to the gym. It took a lot of willpower to stay away from all the things that I had previously used as a way of comfort for myself.