The no-nos of picking up women in bars are fairly obvious. Online dating, on the other hand, is a bit more nuanced.
And don’t stare at her cleavage while she’s talking (or at least don’t get caught doing it).
According to Ok Cupid, messages with those “words” get replies less than 10% of the time (ouch). You’re better off spelling things out like a grown-ass man.
Ok Cupid discovered that messages with those words receive responses 25% of the time or less.
They emphasize their most favorable physical characteristics and personality traits.