For example, in the second chapter he explains that "preparation is more important than commitment" when it comes to marriage. When it comes to relationships, commitment is way overrated." An odd statement, especially since Stanley nodes towards America's high divorce rates in the previous chapter. I don't believe church people are the only ones preparing to commit." He continues, "Church happens to be my context.
Online dating services provide a similar context." Likely Stanley does not intend to convey to his readers that it is unnecessary to finding someone who shares your faith so long as you prepare for marriage well by paying off your debt, breaking bad habits, and addressing past experiences.
During the interview, Merritt asked Stanley why he did not address the LGBT community in .
We might expect an Evangelical pastor's answer to explain that he did not address this community because LGBT lifestyles do not fit the parameters of marriage as God defined it. "I met with about 13 of our [church's] attenders who are apart of the LGBT community…
And don’t be above being a bit of a tease: You can hang out with a guy or girl at the bar as if you might go home with them, and then say—give me your number I’ll call you tomorrow.