Imagine if you were about to start driving a car, but you had one foot on the gas and one on the brake. The same is true when you get a girl’s number and start making any of these three deadly texting mistakes.
You already put the effort in of getting her interested in you and getting her number…
Principle #4 – Always be closing – After you meet her, you should be leading the interaction forward toward some kind of relationship (either romantic or just sexual). Keep in mind that you need to get her out on a real date and take the steps toward beginning a relationship and getting physical together.
Principle #5 – Master the High-Status Filter – Guys often lose their chances with a woman because they put too much importance (and pressure) on that one girl.
If she’s getting a bunch of typical, boring texts from you, and other guys are sending her texts that make her feel good and capture her interest, she’s going to go out with them and not you. To begin with, the phone number by itself is totally useless, and here’s why: When a girl gives you her number, she’s not giving you a guarantee of a date.