Our families love us and our friends are accepting.
Of course it helps that we live in Los Angeles, a big city that's had a longer time to get used to multiculturalism and interracial couples than most.
"My husband doesn't think of me as black so much as a woman and a human being; and I certainly don't spend time thinking about the color of his skin as much as I ponder the reasons why he doesn't clean up after himself! Couples are still couples, no matter their color makeup.
At the end of the day, men and women are attracted to each other and bicker with each other more because of the differences between the sexes than anything else.
"The reason so many find it so hard to be in interracial relationships is because, in my opinion, there is still entirely too much emphasis on and preoccupation with race," says Fabius.
The appearance and evolution of internet make online dating become common.
Thanks to online dating, man and woman can contact, talk and meet people by using emails, mobile phone, Facebook, and through websites.