Do you really think this is the way to get a girl to fall in love with you or even meet a lady? I have been so painfully lonely so I know what you feel.
The pain of being alone is more than any physical pain.
If you with a sincere heart seek your destiny and true love the Universe will give you more than you can imagine. So forget sending a girl and sms unless you have established a real rapport with her.
It took me almost a year of meeting with my wife before she would go on a date with me.
Be objective about this and think with your brain not with your Freudian ‘id’.