Who was your favorite schoolteacher or college professor? Now that you’ve got questions for your first date, try setting one up on e Harmony. Though there is no magic potion that will make meeting a woman easy, there are some things that should be thought of beforehand that will help.
The conversation went something like this: Mom: You should really....(screams in pain)...out with....(Screams again) him sometime. Dad: I wouldn't mind some drinks sometime, what are you doing this evening?
"My ex used to…" You know what else your ex used to do?
But the ability to speak is only one part of the equation—and not the most important part.
The best communication occurs with an even and equal exchange between two people. Getting to know someone new is like peeling an onion one thin layer at the time. But some people, overeager to get into deep and meaningful conversation, go too far too fast.
In reality, premature or exaggerated revelations are due more to boundary issues, unresolved pain, or self-centeredness than true intimacy. Maybe your first date questions will lead you to discover that this person is your soul mate—or maybe not.