In fact, all acceptable men in 40s are already taken by that age.The men in 40s who are kind of OK are taken by women very fast.April brings cutting edge behavioral research to singles to empower them for finding quality mates.
But I am finding most women either had a really bad relationship or just want to be left alone, or are very picky. I have dated 4 women in the last 10 months and what a fiasco. In fact, all acceptable men in 40s are already taken by that age.
Either they don't communicate very well or run for the hills, I am not a rebound. I myself didnt have problems finding women but its like you say. women at that age have been around the block and are wiser. The men in 40s who are kind of OK are taken by women very fast.
A rule of thumb to live by: People say opposites attract but no one says for how long.
Find someone similar to yourself and you will find friendship first!
I feel I am doing something wrong damned if I do or damned if I don't. What doesn't help is most of the women in my area of Boise are married, I am like dang the luck! they have more experience and for the 2nd round they are specific in what they want. but the thing I disliked the most was many arent looking for something serious. not looking to get really serious (move in/marriage) and many of them are newly divorced who are looking to just enjoy, feel free and party because they didnt for so long. the good ones are there but I can tell you its very hard to find someone whos looking for the same things. There are certainly plenty of men in 40s online but they are either hopeless or unavailable for women in 40s because they are looking for much younger women.