When they make the decision to engage in anal sex, it is a conscious decision, and one that has to be discussed, planned, and talked about.
For couples who have a harder time with intimacy, that can feel like an open door to be vulnerable with each other, and to give of themselves.
Why women fear anal sex Ask any heterosexual man if he would enjoy taking a dildo and inserting it into his anus and, more than likely, he won’t think it’s a good idea.
[Check out: 15 types of toxic relationships to watch out for] When it may be a bad idea Just like any sexual encounter that you have with a stranger, a lover, or your spouse, it can’t be something that you feel pressured to do or are not ready for.
If you think that if you just do it for him, it will make him happy, think again.
If you are worried about it, nervous, or just downright opposed, but appease him anyway, it will not be a positive step in your relationship.