Just because you’re young and still figuring yourself out doesn’t mean it will magically change one day.I’ve met single women ages 30-50 displaying this behavior.
A truly confident guy does not feel the need to prove to everyone around him how confident and how “cool” he is. He does not need to drive faster than others, and he doesn’t need to wear the most expensive clothes and watch.
A truly confident, attractive guy knows his alcohol limit, and he doesn’t embarrass himself by getting drunk and acting like a jerk to all around him.
That guy is likely living well beyond his means and has a very fragile ego.
For some guys being a douchebag is just a passing stage of confusion in discovering his own identity before he become a real men.
It made dealing with all the previous dating crap worth it to find him.