First, your partner is going to meet you eventually.
When they do, they will immediately compare you to your younger doppelgänger.
Be genuine and embrace what makes you a little quirky or different.
You may not appeal to everyone, but, you don’t need to. Or, are you saying what you think other people want to hear? Ask one or more friends what they appreciate most about you.
Few men are going to look like Georgy Clooney and few women are going to look like Jane Seymour.