I’ve found some women get frustrated with the ‘I have the kids this weekend’ scenario because it can dampen their spontaneity and they lose that one-on-one time that’s so important when dating, but it also might mean that the following weekend is a ‘child-free’ weekend.” “So many women (and some men) think they know their boundaries and yet accept unreasonable demands when they think they meet ‘the one,’” Zuckerman explains.
“If you are accepting the unacceptable, over time it is a recipe for disaster!
I always encourage clients to make sure they have healed from the wounds of previous relationships prior to pursuing another one.” “A guy is going to show up to a first date expecting to see that girl—not the woman you are today.
“Women over 40 sometimes convince themselves that there are not many good opportunities for a future mate on the dating scene after 40, and therefore settle for the first good candidate who comes along,” Drenner says.
“Too often, they make the ‘smart choice,’ meaning a good potential partner that cares for them, rather than the ‘heart choice,’ who is someone they love.” So go ahead and hold out for someone who you really, truly love.
Remember, if you’re married but separated, you’re married.
If you’re married and living single, you’re married.
“He’s probably not looking for another dependent.” Seriously.