Take it slow on the first meeting, let him know that you are looking for a relationship, but wait for at least 5 to 6 weeks before sharing your future vision with him. Take it slow and easy, and try to enjoy each and every minute you spend together.
Even if you've already started liking him, take one step at a time.
As women try their best to attract and keep the perfect guy, they often ignore the basic, yet important things that are enough to drive him away for good.
This also doesn't mean that you have to reveal your inner-demons and rattle about your shortcomings all at once.
If you are not comfortable with something, then let him know.
Be respectful while saying so, and choose appropriate words while talking to your date.
In a nutshell, be honest and don't pretend to be someone you're actually not.
Again a big turn-off, don't talk about past affairs or how good or bad your recent ex-boyfriend or spouse was.